Hi @com2,
thank you for using Lightmeter! 
In your scenario you can use the rsync option by scheduling rsyncing the /var/log/mail/ directory from A to B. Lightmeter will detect the new logs and track them properly. The events on Lightmeter as as “real time” as the frequency you synchronize the logs. More info at [1].
And yes, this option will duplicate the storage for the logs. If you want to avoid it, you might try storing the logs in a network shared filesystem, which in theory should work, even though I confess I have never tried it. If you do, please report your findings here! 
On the socket option, Lightmeter will start listening in a TCP port, which has a very simple wire protocol: the raw contents the lines are sent with a \n
character separating them.
Which syslog implementation are you using?
A third way is to use logstash to send logs to lightmeter, in case you are using the ELK stack, also using the socket option. It is documented here: [2]
[1] Lightmeter / ControlCenter · GitLab
[2] Lightmeter / ControlCenter · GitLab